Bounty Along My Driveway

•July 28, 2008 • No Comments

Green Beans - part of the bountiful harvest from our city-dwelling.

So, I wanted to give the kids something to observe this summer as we come and go about our daily activities of swimming, bicycling, playing in the park, running to catch the “Ice-Cream-Man,” etc. I wanted them to observe the phenomenon of gardening - of actual edible produce stemming from the dirt! Nicholas has some memories of the years we lived in the country and the large vegetable garden that I worked out there. But for the past 7 years, since we moved into the city, we haven’t had any kind of vegetable garden at all. Jennifer and I have worked steadily and increasingly at our annual and perennial landscaping around the house from day 1. But I really missed my vegetables, and I wanted the kids to experience the miracle, too. So, one day, early in the spring, I purchased 4 large pots from WalMart and filled them with potting soil. I had the kids help me distribute seeds of carrots, green peppers and green beans. Then, we cut up some of the sprouting potatoes from the kitchen and buried them in one of the pots. These pots sit along our driveway and get about half a day of full sun. Also, along the back of the building that borders our backyard, we planted pumpkins and sunflowers. Everything is coming up perfectly! We have already gleaned green beans and eaten them right off the vine! The kids thought that was COOL! Yesterday, I reached down into the pot of carrots (which I never thinned as they were sprouting) to pull a couple and see how they were progressing. Just as I hoped, we had half-inch long, Q-tip sized orange morsels growing perfectly! We all took bites! They were warm and sweet and the kids were so impressed. So the lesson is, you can plant vegetables ANYWHERE! This reality was impressed upon me when I was pumping gas recently and I observed several zucchini vines on the fuel island which had been planted in 5-gallon pails. Try it! Get a couple of old pots or buckets and fill them with everyday dirt. Plant a few of your favorite veggies. You’ll have fun! Presently, I’m scouting some areas on the outskirts of our property where I may be able to sneak a few rows of sweet corn. (Won’t the neighbors be surprised?!)

Relentless Love

•May 21, 2008 • 3 Comments

Colin & Sammy Nothing compares to the relentless love between a puppy and his boy! No matter what happens during the day…Colin stepping on Sammy’s paw, tripping over him while they rough-house…Sammy still comes running back to Colin to jump on him and play with him…no memory of the previous pain. Kinda like our relationship with God. Isn’t it great to know that we can still keep running back into the hands of a merciful, loving God?! The question for us is: how badly are we going to bruise and hurt Him? Sammy has a limp right now and we’re not sure how he got it. The vet can’t find anything wrong - maybe just a soft tissue sprain. Something happened, but none of us know. Sammy’s pain doesn’t keep him holding a grudge, but it still hurts. How much “soft-tissue damage” do we cause?

Vernal Equinox Haiku

•May 19, 2008 • No Comments

Summer’s on its way!

Kids don’t want to go to bed

Cause the sun’s still up

Creating Special Times…

•April 9, 2008 • 3 Comments

Colin and I have had some wonderful days together! Jennifer and the other 3 children have been practicing feverishly for a local production of Peter Pan. Their practice schedules have demanded every evening for the past 2 weeks, and most of this entire past weekend. During this time, Colin and I have had lots of opportunities to “hang-out.” We’ve been to the park, been bike riding, walked the puppy a lot, drive past the airport to watch the planes land, eaten at all the fun joints like Tully’s, Applebees, Dunkin Donuts, etc. But this afternoon, after we dropped the family off for practice, we just drove around, and we talked about what to go see. After we swang by the airport to view a touch-and-go, the thought occurred to me that we haven’t seen “Trishie” in a while. Great Aunt Trish is in the nursing home and is doing her best attempt at rehab. I realized that Colin hadn’t seen her since Christmas and that he has never been in a nursing home. I nearly drove home, knowing that nursing homes can be scary places for young people. But I decided that maybe HE should make that decision instead of me. So we drove to the Village Green where Trishie is staying. When we first walked in, Colin was startled by the gaggle of elderly ladies in wheelchairs, squealing at the sight of a new youngling on their premises. But we just waved, said “hello” and walked toward Trishie’s room. Trish was so delighted to see us that she, too, squealed. Colin ran up and gave her a hug and immediately started sharing his Burger King french fries. (he must REALLY love her!) Colin explored all of the drawers and closets while Trishie and I talked. We had a fine visit, and Colin remarked on the way out, “can we come back again sometime, dad?”

All of this taught me a lesson: that I should not pre-decide which experiences my children will or will not like! Let them experience them and decide on their own. I have forever been told stories of when I was a child, my parents would take me on church visitations to nursing homes, and they would evidently stand me up on the end of the bed of various and sundry patients and belt out the song, “Jesus Is All The World To Me.” So, I was obviously not harmed by these experiences, nor should I expect that my children will somehow be scarred. We had a great evening together, and we decided on the way home that we needed a donut!

Cherish the time that you have with your elderly loved ones! Get their stories! They have so much locked up inside their minds. Try this out for a way to get started… http://www.thenewhomemaker.com/scrapbookingfamilyhistory

There are some great “prompts” to get you started asking questions of your loved ones and jotting down their replies while we still have them with us! All of those quirky things that they say at Christmas Dinner will someday be silenced and we’ll wish that we could remember them.

Spring Thaw

•April 7, 2008 • No Comments

Here’s the same view 2 weeks later! Almost all of the massive snow piles are gone and the crocuses are starting to show! 57 degrees today, and everyone was outside. The park across the street was full of activity. It’s as though the whole street came to life. Folks that we haven’t seen all winter long - holed up in their houses - seem to pour out of their homes. People walking dogs were stopping, talking, catching up and enjoying the cool sunshine!

I especially love the smell of the kids’ hair after we’ve spent a day in the sunshine. I tell them that “I can smell the sunshine on you!” They think that’s funny.

Spring is a time of renewal: homes, landscapes, relationships, energies…whatever it is, it seems like spring is a magical time of newness. We are hoping to purchase the home that we’ve been renting for the past 7 years. 2008 may be filled with lots of changes in our household: not relocation, but redecorating, some remodeling and lots of budget management.

What are some of the changes that you see for yourself this spring?

Thrown for a loop…

•March 29, 2008 • 2 Comments

March Snowfall

Okay, so we got slammed with another round of snow last night. ENOUGH, ALREADY!

Now, mind you, I’m not one to complain in the winter. You’ll never hear me complain about snowfall in December, January or February. But once Easter comes, I’m ready to be done with the shoveling. Once the crocuses and hyacinths start to peek up, I don’t want to see them covered with another blanket of muddy snow!

March Snowfall

And while we didn’t really get a large amount of snow (maybe 4 inches), it fell very heavy and thick, forming a wet, thick layer on all of the wires and branches, creating a winter wonderland - IN THE SPRING! <sheesh>

All of this makes me wonder, how often do you get thrown for a loop? How do you respond? Do you roll out of bed, shake your head, pull on your trousers and start shoveling, or do you stand in the kitchen with your cup of coffee, looking at the “mess,” curse the snow, curse the day and bemoan your bad luck? Or, like me, a little of both?

But, much to my surprise, there was a special, unexpected blessing waiting for me outside my back door. As I approached the bird feeders to knock theMarch Snowfall snow off, the chickadees in the tree went crazy with chirping, reminding me 1. that my efforts were being appreciated, 2. that the birds are coming back, and 3. that actual spring-like warm temperatures are right around the corner! Do you ever approach the new morning EXPECTING to be blessed? Or do you challenge God, DARING Him to bless you?

Expect A Blessing ! :)

(It sure beats the alternative)

Spitzer Haiku…

•March 13, 2008 • No Comments

A great man once said,

“How the mighty have fallen.”

Here we go again.

Celebration Haiku…

•March 6, 2008 • 1 Comment

Exceeded my goals…

Made my employer happy!

Cancun, here I come!

Chaotic Soul…

•February 17, 2008 • 5 Comments

So, the name of the theme that I chose for my first blog site is called “Chaotic Soul.” That pretty much sums me up. This blog , I warn you, is going to be a flight of ideas! So much swirls through my head through the day that it is difficult to imagine what might come out at any given time. It may be political, it may be religious, it may be nonsense, but most definitely it will not be very funny (’cause my 12-year-old says I’m not funny.) Anyway, here I am. If you like it, let me know. Otherwise, I promise, I will go away.

Oh, and the “by the blood” thing…it’s only by the blood of Jesus Christ that I am here, living life, drawing breath, doing anything.